Aespa’s Winter set off a fiery debate between fans this week after sharing a cover of Victoria Monét’s “Touch Me” — a song which features explicit lyrics about sexual intimacy between two women.
Naturally, fans were mesmerized by Winter’s beautiful vocals in the clip, which has already amassed more than half a million likes on Instagram. However, they were also quick to pick up on the lyrics Winter sang, including lines like “I’m in love with your fingertips” and “Girl, it’s been too long.”
winter singing touch me by victoria monét and she sounds so insanely attractive pic.twitter.com/m4YX5ufaY7
— liz ꫂ ၴႅၴ (@rinacvnty) February 4, 2025
Victoria Monét previously made the song’s intent clear in an Apple Music commentary, emphasizing its importance as a rare example of unabashedly expressed queer desire. “It was really important for me to share that… especially in a sexual way,” Monét said, noting the lack of such direct representation in mainstream music.
“Touch Me” is one of the only songs where you can hear me sing a different pronoun. I say “girl,” I say “her.” I think it’s important for music to have that. A lot of times we can make songs applicable to us, but they’re not directly being like, “This is about a woman.”
— Victoria Monét to Apple Music
While numerous fans were excited to hear Winter cover a song that boldly celebrates lesbian and sapphic relationships…
wait i was so mesmerized by winter’s voice i completely forgot the lyrics to victoria monet’s touch me are gay asf HELLO??? WINTER? pic.twitter.com/e1LWRFnXRc
— dawn 💙⭐️ (@imswerpy) February 4, 2025
… some questioned whether she really grasped the song’s context and suggested it was unlikely Winter’s song choice had anything to do with the lyrics.
Anyway she probably covered it because the melody is interesting or smth let’s not read too much into it 😌
— J (@foraespa1117) February 4, 2025
The claims soon led to fierce backlash among MYs. Although Winter stated that her “English is terrible” at a recent aespa concert, fans have always been impressed by the star’s language skills despite her lack of confidence, with Giselle praising Winter’s English accent as the best in the group.
⭐️ my english is terrible too but we have translator
🌙 this is my opinion but winter has the best english accent
⭐️ no…
🌙 for real… for real (🇰🇷)
⭐️ really…? thank you!
🌙 yeah!the moon and the star… my winselle. this is so warm and cute 🥺♡ pic.twitter.com/twPahBqZiA
— 13 ✿ (@uchgaeri) January 31, 2025
As such, some say that claims Winter can’t understand the song she’s singing are racially charged, arguing that fans often unfairly underestimate idols’ awareness of LGBTQ+ content.
“she doesnt understand the lyrics” this is the same argument yall used when karina posted billie eilish lunch on june 1st😭 saying they dont understand is lowkey racist it doesnt take an english major to understand lyrics & winter always checks lyrics before recommending songs so
— dawn 💙⭐️ (@imswerpy) February 4, 2025
On top of that, fans also resurfaced remarks Winter previously made on the artist-fan chat app Bubble, where she explained that she checks to make sure lyrics are appropriate before recommending songs to fans.
Mind you she does check the lyrics 😭 https://t.co/qtdLHfxE3A pic.twitter.com/0A7zmQVSKj
— Jazz (@mjkmwntr) February 4, 2025
Many are comparing the situation a similar debate Karina sparked last year when she shared the song “Lunch” by Billie Eilish in an Instagram post — in which Eilish also sings about sex between two women. Earlier this week, both Karina and Winter went viral for an unexpected on-stage “boob grab” moment.
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